Thursday, February 23, 2017


Thank goodness my days of hook ups are done !

Not that I don't enjoy sharing about my days of hot sex at my sexual peak. (Believe me I do!)
But what I don't miss is the bullshit that goes behind getting a piece of nookie.

Take for instance this situation:

It was Sunday evening.  I was at home in the office messing around on the computer when I received a message from an unknown number.

Caller: Hey Mark you there?

Me: Yes. Who is this? The name didn't show up.

Caller: Tommy here..remember me? Want me to send some pics?

Me: Sure !

The very first picture he sent was a picture of his ass.  He had a very nice ass.  But all the same, it was just a picture of an ass.  the second picture was that of him smiling with no shirt on. He was a very handsome looking White guy with beautiful skin.

Next he would send a few pictures of his dick which was not bad at all.  I must say that the guy was hot !  I still didn't reconize him.  I thought he was a model from long ago that answered one of my adds.  It just didn't dawn on me that it was an old potential hook up.

Anyway, I replied by saying, "Wow ! you are a beautiful man !"

Tommy: Thank you. Can I see some hot pics of yourself too?

Me: I'm sorry I can't remember....were you a model that answered my add?

Tommy: We chatted on A4A before.

Me: Wow! that was some time ago.  I still have that account but haven't been active on there for about two years.

Tommy: Really? Wow !  I cleaned up all my junk in my phone.  I found your number and wanted to say hi.

Me: What's been going on with you?

Tommy: Pictures please?

I sent him a picture of me but of course it wasn't good enough because I had clothes on in the picture.

Tommy: Handsome. No nude pics ? :(

Me: Honestly I got rid of all my X pics. I really don't hook up anymore.

Tommy: Oh Shoot !

Me: By the way I put on lots of weight. I could send some more recent pics but it would have to be later on.

Needless to say I didn't get a response. 

Then it hit me. "This guy is a very hot guy. Why not see if he would be interested in modeling for me. If this guy has the nerve to text me out of the blue showing his dick and butthole maybe he'd be interested in posing for my portfolio."

So I text him, "I'm always looking for males to pose for my portfolio. Details are open for discussion if interested."

Of course I never heard from him.

I don't know what did it first.  I'm not sure if it was me saying I'm no longer hooking up or that I gained a lot of weight. Whatever it was, I know for certain I won't be hearing from that dude anymore.

What I love the most about getting older is the fact I just don't need it that badly.  Yes I think about sex alot.  Yes I have a very erotic mind and eroticism is what gets my dick hard.  But I don't feel the need to fuck everything that would let me.  And I'm not addicted like a smoker looking for a cigarette bud.  This dude scavenged through his phone looking for anyone. Messages from over two years and he expects me to be like,"Ok!" 

I am in no way mad about the situation. I actually find it quite funny but also a little sad because its a testimony that guys would say anything they feel you want to hear to get some dick.  

That mother fucker knows He didn't just want to say hi. he wanted some Black dick ! 

I'm just so glad that I don't have to play these game just to have sex with someone I have no connection with. 

I don't have to play games, lie or scavenge because I have some good sex with The Boss. And the best thing is I'm with someone I love. So when we're making love we're MAKING LOVE !

Speaking of which, I have hot bottom to jump in the next room.
Ciao people !

Monday, February 20, 2017


I am learning the importance of backing your shit up especially in the blogosphere.  It appears that some of my gifs are messing up and  I can't remember which ones I posted with each post.

If I could get feedback letting me know if you are able to see the gifs for  THIS POST 
and if they are visible to you, could you send them to my email at ? Thank you.

Tuesday, February 14, 2017


Please send recent face and body shots to . 

Thursday, February 2, 2017


Good news ! I'm now at 61 followers. Yee whoo !

 I was at 59 when I posted "WHAT 2017 WILL BRING  in January. 

You may say, "It's just two followers."  But every new follower is a victory especially when one of my goals for my blog is to get to 100 followers by the end of the year.  Even though I may get to 100 followers, the words of my blog buddies rings true; It doesn't really matter without quality comments and input of those following.  So I look forward to great conversation from you guys.

By the way I appreciate the advice from my blog family in regards to the numbers.  I don't want it to be about the numbers. But I can be a needy bitch at times ! LOL

Monday, January 30, 2017


As an artist I know the importance of knowing what to show the public and what not to.  You often hear about artists and musicians with vaults of unpublished material.  Every artist has his/her reasons for keeping somethings unpublished for awhile.  A lot of times it may be a situation of the material is just not good enough and they want to display their best work.  Sometimes its a matter of finding the right concept in the later years.

Sometimes for a photographer there is one photograph out of a photo set that is the money shot.  Sometimes if it ain't broke don't try to fix it; you could end up fucking up the whole program.

For me  GAPED WIDE OPEN is that shot. Not only is it the shot but it is also the text that brings out the eroticism of this post.  Written expression is just as important as the image; as it  narrates a special message.

Taking its popularity in the two years of this blog,  I decided to release some other stills from this shoot.  I'm plunging into taking the chance of posting more shots even though GAPED WIDE OPEN does excellent by itself.  Hope you enjoy.

Loving those hairy thighs, that huge bulge and wonderful gap.


 Time to get up and start the day.

Saturday, January 28, 2017

Yúkuài de nónglì xīnnián


O.K. So I don't speak Chinese.  I'm relying solely on Google translation.  Happy Happy Chinese New Year !

Bùyào wàngjì jīntiān wéixiào
Don't forget to smile today!   :-)

Tuesday, January 24, 2017


"Just punched the last time card, I'm taking off this stuffy ass suit and ready to chill......
Honey!...Get the golf bags out for me Bae!


Enjoy your freedom SIR !

Wednesday, January 18, 2017


Its a new year and I did some reflecting on last year. 

I learned from some of my mistakes but most of all I am moving forward to my goals and resolutions. I used to hate using the term "resolutions" during the turn of a new year, because it has been thrown around so much that it seemed to have lost its effectiveness.  But for me there are goals I have as well as things I would like to resolve.

I won't get into many of my personal goals and resolutions but I will share some that pertain to me as an artist and a blogger.

(In no specific order)

1. Last year I wrote a piece called "HOMOGENIZED MILK : WHY ?"  The story had nothing to do with milk but the cultural homogenization that we have grown so accustomed to in our society. My goal is to represent more diversity in ethnicity and race; to represent a wider range of body types as well as a wider range in ages.

2. I get a large amount of traffic to my blog.  I get hundreds a day.  But for quite some time my amount of followers stayed at 59.  My goal is by the end of the year to have 100 people following / subscribed to my blog. This is something that I have no control over.  It is up to the viewers to decide to subscribe to my blog....SOOO!  Just go to the right of my posts, under the the title "Casting Crew" are a bunch of images of people currently following me.  Under all those pictures is a button that says "Follow" click on that button.  And you are now following my blog.  That simple! let's turn 59 into 60 and 60 into 100.

2a. Shameless self promotion! If there is something I want from my viewers I'm going to ask. Staring now! SUBSCRIBE TO THE MALE CASTING COUCH ! :-)

3. I also would like to have more dialogue.  For many of us bloggers, we look forward to hearing comments.  It lets us know that there are people out there that really get what we are doing.  I would like to see more interaction with my fan base.

4. I want to comment more on others' blogs.  Last year I slacked on doing so due to my schedule. This year I want to get back to having great dialog with my blog buddies, as well as feature new blogs.

I remember when I first started, it was difficult getting noticed.  It was with the help of my blog friends that I have a blog that's not doing too bad.  So If I could help others I would love to do that.

5. I have one goal that I'm working on. its still up in the air but once I get it going, I'll let you in on it. but for now, continue to enjoy my work.

Here's to great shots!