Leather, S/M, bondage, spanking:
These are some of the themes that have been part of
TALES OF MY MISCHIEVOUS THIRTIES as well as CHRONICLES FROM THE SCRUFFY
Domination and power over another person sexually is one of the most arousing, dick throbbing aspects of sex for me. And anyone who has read my past experiences knows that Domination and submission has had some part of my sexual play in various stories.
Whether I was throat fucking a hot bottom or if I had someone blindfolded and tied, I often enjoyed having a hot bottom boy at my disposal to do as I wish.
Sometimes it was me that was the one on my knees and submissive, so it should be no surprise that some of the porn I enjoy may include an occasional BDSM scene.
A few weeks ago I was on Tumblr checking out some porn clips and pictures when I stumbled over a very disturbing clip of a guy tied to a chair.
I'm not going to say what was going on. I don't even want to give that kind of bullshit any kind of recognition. One thing I will say is that the person tied to the chair kept saying "no."
The more he said no, the more the top continued. Never before have I seen anything so disturbing. The video appeared as a very thin line between sick amusement for the viewer and a snuff film.
I quickly removed that guy from my list of people I follow on Tumblr. If I could have reported him I would have.
Recently I made a post titled A LESSON IN ABC'S.
In it I described how I pushed this guy's boundaries as to how much oral sex he could take before he had enough.
WHKATTK one of the readers and a good blog friend asked, "Serious question, Mark: When you do hook-ups like that do you agree on a safe word
or signal? Is it during the back & forth messaging before the actual
My answer is yes! I usually always let the person know when
we are chatting back and forth that there will be a safe word or some
type of head gesture if the person is gagged. I don't even play with
people who don't care if a safe word is used or not. If I don't create a safe word I always communicate by asking how the person is doing.
Domination is a very powerful type of play. A good Top knows when to push and when to let off. But even with that, communication is ALWAYS a necessity in any BDSM scene.
There are some idiot tops and bottoms as well that just don't care about themselves or others. And that is the difference between a pleasurable experience and a perversion. I am sure you will hear me talk about this subject again. It can not be warned enough!
A special thanks to Whatattk for bringing this to my attention. I would never want to promote anything that is unsafe and just downright stupid behavior. Again thanks.
And thanks to all the visitors who cum and enjoy my blog.